In reality, many people will set a range for their lovers. Once they cross the border, it is unacceptable. Generally speaking, there is nothing wrong with asking for love. The height, weight and face are all personal choices. Therefore, no matter in the video, movie, blind date program or blind date scene, we can see that we have made a list of ourselves and made a firm statement about the future partner. It seems that if you happen to meet her husband in the next few years, you will find that almost none of them meet her original requirements, but every one is the opposite of her requirements.
A lot of love is saying one thing and doing another, but just saying it means doing it is really doing it. Whenever I see young girls racking their brains to imagine their future boyfriends, I feel futile. Love is the most unlikely to be quantified and limited. At the same time, do those who have now been regarded as common sense standards need to be re-examined for their true love quality? Do they bind us or make us taboo and more humane? Beyond those basic digital concepts in love, how do people express their demands?
How many times have you been in love is appropriate.
I often meet girls who ask me sadly that the boy who chased me has had four girlfriends, so I don’t pay attention to whether I should promise or not. I think twice and forget it. He can break up with the first four girlfriends so cruelly, and many of me can see that I broke up in the backcourt, so I flatly refused.
After a while, she will come to you and say what to do. My boyfriend has never been in love before and knows nothing. When a girl loses her temper, she will be at a loss and will not comfort me when she is unwell. I think I am not his girlfriend but his mother.
No matter how many times you have been in love or never talked about a man, it will be a woman’s problem. Too much talk is not attentive and too little talk is inexperienced. If a male guest on a dating show doesn’t want to be turned off, it must be said that I have been in love for three times, but this number is the maximum that China people can accept repeated mistakes. For the first time, I don’t understand anything. For the second time, I learned the first lesson. Slowly, the third time, I will be more mature and experienced to see if I care whether I continue. This statement is that the first three times of love are repeated mistakes.
Emphasis on several times of love is a personal reflection of one person. On the one hand, he wants to be the only one of the other party, and on the other hand, he wants the other party to be able to take care of others’ experience. He can sit back and enjoy himself. It is best to have been in love several times in real life. This kind of problem is a false proposition. Some people have been in love once in their lives, but they have also met that person, and some people have been in love happily for a dozen times. Finally, they can have their last girlfriend for a long time. Others have been in love for three times when they were young, but they have never been able
The experience value in love is better than that in non-love. Even if you haven’t been in love, a strong person with ability can gradually take care of a considerate woman, while a weak person who has been in love for a hundred times is just repeating it. In the end, it depends on how his personal physical and mental state is when you meet him. Just try to go there. Don’t worry about him. I will finally believe it. When we climb the mountain, we are afraid that people will look and look more and more, and the brave people will save enough strength to climb more and more.
What age is suitable for falling in love?
According to the function of life, seventeen years old is the golden age of falling in love, and the feeling of youth is particularly sultry. There is no secular trouble. two of a kind is ashamed and shy, and the environment is wonderful. But how many people have experienced this feeling of pure first love? Whether we chased girls together or sat at the same table in those years, you can make everyone cry after watching it. People say it is moving, but I think it is more likely that they have poked those nerves in our hearts that need compensation.
Under the pressure of college entrance examination, most people in China have never experienced the true first love, which is caused by dislocation from the beginning of love enlightenment, and then we are all deformed when we are in love at the right age.
I know a brother who was ordered to go home for a month because of falling in love in high school. In that month, he got up in the morning and his parents nagged like a machine. Although he didn’t feel anything wrong, he had to listen when he graduated from college. His parents nagged so much that he didn’t even talk about his girlfriend in high school. No one asked you to talk about you. After three years, he was still single. At that time, he suddenly realized that he couldn’t love others. When he met a female colleague, he turned around and forgot nothing. At the age of 30, his parents arranged a blind date for him, and they were all satisfied. He was very kind, and his mother cried and said, Do you know what outsiders say and what we say about you? Don’t make a fool of yourself. If you don’t promise me, you will die. He looked at his mother blankly and could accept it.
In the eyes of parents, it is most appropriate to fall in love at the age of 24 or 5, and the former is too small, and the latter is too important to make people laugh. Parents judge by the outside world and never consider what the age is really suitable for their children. At the age of ten, they don’t interfere, and they don’t talk about their children as love. Maybe their life will be different. Maybe the first love girl at the age of ten can walk happily for a generation.
It sounds like how unreasonable the parents are, but in reality, don’t women have feelings for themselves and set limits on themselves? There are too many.
If you haven’t graduated, you can’t talk about job instability, you can’t talk about enjoying a single life for a few years first, you can’t talk about the other party without a car or a house, and you can drag it out at any time. Again and again, we strongly missed true love and finally got left to worry.
I think of Qiu Wei’s saying that loving a woman is a young age. Don’t talk about it because you are afraid of being young and naive, and don’t worry about not trying when you are old and no one wants it. Remember to seize it every time, don’t let it go, even if the world wants you, don’t give up easily, because you already know how rare and accurate it is.
How old is the difference between two people?
There is a girlfriend around me who makes me tremble with anger. Everyone who introduces her to her pays the most attention to her age. She is not as handsome as she is three years younger than her, and she has no money at all. The concept of holding the BRICS is deeply rooted in her, as if it were brought from the womb. Her mother, grandmother and grandmother are all here. Although she has not seen any special improvement in life, her mediocre life is also booming. She vowed not to violate this family precept. When I was joking, I would say that you have thought about it. When a female junior holds the BRICS, she told a man how can you devote yourself to a man’s career?
I’ve also met a girl who must find a boyfriend who is ten years older than herself. She’s sophisticated in disguise, and she knows everything well, but she’s only superficial in astronomy. Her biggest feature is that she loves to teach people how to be meticulous and persuasive. Maybe she thinks this is maturity. According to her theory, no one in Datong can match her in knowledge and experience. She thinks it’s naive to meet boys. She must find a boyfriend who is ten years older than herself, but she can’t be seven years older. She must be ten years older because the circle is too small.
Because so many girls ask men to be older or younger than her, it’s surprising to hear that husband and wife are the same age now. I don’t know when people of similar age don’t come and there must be a gap before they think it’s love.
In some forums, I often see girls asking sadly whether their boyfriends are five years older than me or not. This problem has become the biggest obstacle for two people to fall in love. It seems to be much more serious than personality incompatibility, his violent tendency and so on. But in fact, this is not a matter. It is enough for two people to live in harmony and passion at that time. Don’t think about whether it is appropriate to be a few years older and a few years younger. If this problem leads to bad feelings in love, it is really stupid.
Some girls will imagine hundreds of standards before falling in love, but when they encounter a heart-warming person who ignores everything, they will follow him. The standards seem to have never been the same, but girls really frame according to the standards. Unfortunately, they haven’t been framed for more than ten years, and fortunately, they may have framed dozens of people and then accidentally framed a standard, but this one has gradually deformed with the contact between two people. In fact, all the frames are in vain and others are tired.
That’s what love is. If you kidnap others with numbers, numbers will kidnap you.
Chapter IV Good Love and Spring Water Wash Spring Water
Good love grows together. There are two basic ways to realize love. One is to the other side, and the other is to the outside world. Dead water is easy to stink and mildew. So is love. Once two people are still living, there must be no fragrance. The cleaner and more pleasing living water will be.
Good love washes spring water with spring water.
For most people, the basis of a stable life is a state of static repetition, while for some people, a state of stability is a state of constant progress, which seems to be ordinary, but the essence is quite different.
There are many forms in life, such as classroom form, school work form and love. Whether in prosperity or adversity, life is giving us growth nutrients. More often than not, you don’t want to go, but life is tough to teach you lessons. It’s not acceptable. We also seem to be used to constantly seeking progress in the classroom, getting higher grades in school, getting better grades in exams, getting higher and higher performance in work, and getting higher and higher positions. These practical goals make us dare not relax for a moment. Year after year, we have indeed done well.
However, we always ignore those forms of class than love. At the dinner table, I once heard two successful men have a heart-to-heart conversation. One of them said that my wife complained that I was only half as good as her friends. I spent most of my time socializing outside and gave it to my friends. When I got home, I often fell asleep and didn’t even have the strength to say a word. The other patted him on the shoulder and said that I was the same. I told her that I was so busy outside and met different people. When I got home, I was all relatives. I’m afraid to talk and sleep when I want to talk. Home is a place where I can’t relax at home. How can a man live? The more two people talk and speculate, the more tears seem to come to my eyes. I’m listening to it, but I’m scared and cold. Is this what I’m going to face? On the other hand, I think that family has become a refuge for life, and love has become a thing regardless of cocoa. Isn’t this the normal life of most people?
Morphy once asked Caishen Ning what is your bottom line in feelings. Caishen Ning thought for a long time and added at the end of the program that the bottom line in my marriage is that two people can’t be too divorced. He meant that two people can’t keep up with each other. One person’s vision is as broad as the same day, while the other person is still the original frogman at the bottom of the well. This ability also contains the meaning. In fact, everyone is willing to grow, and women are also in love. Even if a woman is willing to do better, it is futile for a man not to give her a chance.
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